Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Spanking Therapy or Discipline In Sacramento
Email me at punishedhard@aol.com for your spanking needs. Conveniently located minutes from I80 Freeway in Sacramento.
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Spanking Sessions
I am currently available to discipline individuals throughout the week, as well as during the weekend. Please contact me for specific appointment times and days at punishedhard@aol.com
I can tailor your discipline session to suit you. Whether you are in need of a hand spanking, a hairbrush across your bare bottom, wooden spoon, paddle, a good belting, etc.
I can tailor your discipline session to suit you. Whether you are in need of a hand spanking, a hairbrush across your bare bottom, wooden spoon, paddle, a good belting, etc.
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Interested In Discipline
I'd like to address the topic briefly of the individuals who contact me for discipline but have no intention of following through with it.
You are interested in discipline, and you contact a disciplinarian - you tell him/her your story, about yourself, answer some questions and then ask what to expect. The disciplinarian gives you a general idea of what will take place during your initial meeting. The disciplinarian describes what your first spanking will be like, and you decide it is exactly what you need, and then you chicken out.
This scenario happens quite often. Usually, it is because someone is afraid of how painful a spanking will be. There are also other concerns such as: bruises, welts, etc etc.
Rest assured, following a consultation by me you will be disciplined within strict guidelines that are discussed prior to the spanking taking place, and are put into motion only after a firm agreement and understanding is reached. I offer the use of safe words, though I have never had anyone use them. Your pain tolerance may be high, but you want to limit the "after effects" of your spanking. Fine, we can accommodate to a certain extent. I am one who understands that when you are spanked for the first time, you are concerned of how far it will go.
Firstly, there is no sexual contact allowed during my discipline sessions. That means you are not allowed to touch me inappropriately, and I am not allowed to do so either.
Secondly, the punishment is discussed prior to taking place for a reason. We will discuss how far you want the initial disciplinary spanking to go for a few reasons. To establish trust is the most important. During the spanking if you say your safe word, the spanking is immediately stopped. I also offer the use of a secondary word which you can use if you want your initial spanking lightened up a bit. You don't want it discontinued, but you want to ease up on it a bit.
Please keep in mind, this is only for the initial spanking. To establish trust, to introduce you to what it feels like, how the dynamic between spanker and spankee works, and the behaviors we are both expected to respect during the spanking. After the initial spanking takes place, most individuals return for more discipline as needed, or on a set schedule. At that point, you will be disciplined based on your offenses or needs. Still, it is discussed prior to taking place in case you feel you cannot submit to such discipline. This again, is something that has never happened. Once in my care my subjects feel safe, cared for, and respected. I am relied on to carry out discipline as I see fit and deserving, and I do not abuse this trust.
Any other questions or concerns please feel free to contact me via email at punishedhard@aol.com
You are interested in discipline, and you contact a disciplinarian - you tell him/her your story, about yourself, answer some questions and then ask what to expect. The disciplinarian gives you a general idea of what will take place during your initial meeting. The disciplinarian describes what your first spanking will be like, and you decide it is exactly what you need, and then you chicken out.
This scenario happens quite often. Usually, it is because someone is afraid of how painful a spanking will be. There are also other concerns such as: bruises, welts, etc etc.
Rest assured, following a consultation by me you will be disciplined within strict guidelines that are discussed prior to the spanking taking place, and are put into motion only after a firm agreement and understanding is reached. I offer the use of safe words, though I have never had anyone use them. Your pain tolerance may be high, but you want to limit the "after effects" of your spanking. Fine, we can accommodate to a certain extent. I am one who understands that when you are spanked for the first time, you are concerned of how far it will go.
Firstly, there is no sexual contact allowed during my discipline sessions. That means you are not allowed to touch me inappropriately, and I am not allowed to do so either.
Secondly, the punishment is discussed prior to taking place for a reason. We will discuss how far you want the initial disciplinary spanking to go for a few reasons. To establish trust is the most important. During the spanking if you say your safe word, the spanking is immediately stopped. I also offer the use of a secondary word which you can use if you want your initial spanking lightened up a bit. You don't want it discontinued, but you want to ease up on it a bit.
Please keep in mind, this is only for the initial spanking. To establish trust, to introduce you to what it feels like, how the dynamic between spanker and spankee works, and the behaviors we are both expected to respect during the spanking. After the initial spanking takes place, most individuals return for more discipline as needed, or on a set schedule. At that point, you will be disciplined based on your offenses or needs. Still, it is discussed prior to taking place in case you feel you cannot submit to such discipline. This again, is something that has never happened. Once in my care my subjects feel safe, cared for, and respected. I am relied on to carry out discipline as I see fit and deserving, and I do not abuse this trust.
Any other questions or concerns please feel free to contact me via email at punishedhard@aol.com
I'd like to invite and encourage people to join this page and discuss their spanking needs. Any questions or concerns you may have can be addressed anonymously should you choose to remain anonymous.
Interested in knowing the dynamics of the relationship between my subjects and me? Feel free to ask any questions you may have. I will answer honestly, and share as much information as possible while keeping the identities of my subjects anonymous as well.
Friday, August 30, 2013
Been So Long But I Assure You, I Am Here
punishedhard@aol.com
So, yes, it's been a while since I have checked the stats on this blog and I am finding that there have been hundreds of hits since the last time. So that being said, I would like viewers to know that I am still an active disciplinarian and am available still in the Sacramento area for those in search of domestic discipline spankings.
I am currently in charge of discipline for 4 female adults who regularly receive spankings for common issues. The spankings are therapeutic, are offered with care and concern, and are always discussed beforehand to assure a justified approach to dealing with the individuals issue. Recently, I came in contact with a student at a local college who has had issues with anxiety for years and had no idea how to approach the subject therapeutically without going and talking to someone who is paid to listen, jot down notes, and respond based on what some text book as taught them to say.
Since our initial meeting she has been in contact with me and we have found that the form of discipline she is receiving has helped her tremendously. She just started school, she has found that she is able to react to stress and anxiety in a more positive manner, she is developing confidence and social skills amongst her peers, and best of all, she is becoming more independent than ever before.
I love when this happens!!!
No, one spanking usually does not rid you of all of your problems. You must understand that spanking as therapy usually requires repeat visits, once a week, once a month, etc. Setting a schedule for your discipline, showing up on time, discussing the issues at hand, and receiving your discipline is the best way to be consistent with your efforts toward success through domestic discipline spanking therapy.
I encourage individuals, male and female, to contact me via email if you are looking for an alternative to your psychiatric visit at the clinic, or you have exhausted all efforts and are looking for an alternative approach. Consult with me, discuss the basics, set a schedule after learning what to expect, and find yourself on the path to achieving what you need and what you feel you deserve.
Take a look below at the two pics from a spanking session I did a while back.
So, yes, it's been a while since I have checked the stats on this blog and I am finding that there have been hundreds of hits since the last time. So that being said, I would like viewers to know that I am still an active disciplinarian and am available still in the Sacramento area for those in search of domestic discipline spankings.
I am currently in charge of discipline for 4 female adults who regularly receive spankings for common issues. The spankings are therapeutic, are offered with care and concern, and are always discussed beforehand to assure a justified approach to dealing with the individuals issue. Recently, I came in contact with a student at a local college who has had issues with anxiety for years and had no idea how to approach the subject therapeutically without going and talking to someone who is paid to listen, jot down notes, and respond based on what some text book as taught them to say.
Since our initial meeting she has been in contact with me and we have found that the form of discipline she is receiving has helped her tremendously. She just started school, she has found that she is able to react to stress and anxiety in a more positive manner, she is developing confidence and social skills amongst her peers, and best of all, she is becoming more independent than ever before.
I love when this happens!!!
No, one spanking usually does not rid you of all of your problems. You must understand that spanking as therapy usually requires repeat visits, once a week, once a month, etc. Setting a schedule for your discipline, showing up on time, discussing the issues at hand, and receiving your discipline is the best way to be consistent with your efforts toward success through domestic discipline spanking therapy.
I encourage individuals, male and female, to contact me via email if you are looking for an alternative to your psychiatric visit at the clinic, or you have exhausted all efforts and are looking for an alternative approach. Consult with me, discuss the basics, set a schedule after learning what to expect, and find yourself on the path to achieving what you need and what you feel you deserve.
Take a look below at the two pics from a spanking session I did a while back.
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