Interested In Discipline

I'd like to address the topic briefly of the individuals who contact me for discipline but have no intention of following through with it.

You are interested in discipline, and you contact a disciplinarian - you tell him/her your story, about yourself, answer some questions and then ask what to expect. The disciplinarian gives you a general idea of what will take place during your initial meeting. The disciplinarian describes what your first spanking will be like, and you decide it is exactly what you need, and then you chicken out.

This scenario happens quite often. Usually, it is because someone is afraid of how painful a spanking will be. There are also other concerns such as: bruises, welts, etc etc.

Rest assured, following a consultation by me you will be disciplined within strict guidelines that are discussed prior to the spanking taking place, and are put into motion only after a firm agreement and understanding is reached. I offer the use of safe words, though I have never had anyone use them. Your pain tolerance may be high, but you want to limit the "after effects" of your spanking. Fine, we can accommodate to a certain extent. I am one who understands that when you are spanked for the first time, you are concerned of how far it will go.

Firstly, there is no sexual contact allowed during my discipline sessions. That means you are not allowed to touch me inappropriately, and I am not allowed to do so either.

Secondly, the punishment is discussed prior to taking place for a reason. We will discuss how far you want the initial disciplinary spanking to go for a few reasons. To establish trust is the most important. During the spanking if you say your safe word, the spanking is immediately stopped. I also offer the use of a secondary word which you can use if you want your initial spanking lightened up a bit. You don't want it discontinued, but you want to ease up on it a bit.

Please keep in mind, this is only for the initial spanking. To establish trust, to introduce you to what it feels like, how the dynamic between spanker and spankee works, and the behaviors we are both expected to respect during the spanking. After the initial spanking takes place, most individuals return for more discipline as needed, or on a set schedule. At that point, you will be disciplined based on your offenses or needs. Still, it is discussed prior to taking place in case you feel you cannot submit to such discipline. This again, is something that has never happened. Once in my care my subjects feel safe, cared for, and respected. I am relied on to carry out discipline as I see fit and deserving, and I do not abuse this trust.

Any other questions or concerns please feel free to contact me via email at punishedhard@aol.com

I'd like to invite and encourage people to join this page and discuss their spanking needs. Any questions or concerns you may have can be addressed anonymously should you choose to remain anonymous. Interested in knowing the dynamics of the relationship between my subjects and me? Feel free to ask any questions you may have. I will answer honestly, and share as much information as possible while keeping the identities of my subjects anonymous as well.